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You are still young and have so much to do and experience. Enjoy being single and beautiful, because you are! Let me start off by telling you that I have never seen a physically ugly person. I don't believe there is such a thing and if they exists, I have not come across this person! Everyone is born with their own set of Never have done thisman looking for love happniess, which are as pleasing to the eye as the next person.

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A frenzy of big decisions for bad reasons and a lot of people messing up the most important decision of their life. Fear is one of the worst possible decision-makers when it comes to picking the right life partner.

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Unfortunately, the way society is set up, fear starts infecting all kinds of otherwise-rational people, sometimes as early as the mid-twenties. Be willing to have the fights. Say the ugly things and get it all out in the open. This was a constant theme from the divorced readers. Dozens hundreds? There were times tgisman I saw huge red flags. Instead of trying to figure out what in the world was wrong, I just plowed ahead.

And instead of saying something, I ignored all of the signals. When you end up being right about something—shut up. You can be right and be quiet at the same time. To me, like everything else, this comes back to the respect thing. Compromise is bullshit, because it leaves both sides unsatisfied, losing little pieces of themselves in Never have done thisman looking for love happniess effort to get along.

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A few people even said that when things start to feel stale in the relationship, they agree to have sex every day for a week. Then, as if by magic, by the next week, they feel great again. The sooner everyone accepts that, the happier everyone is.

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We all have things we like to do and hate to do; we all have things we are good at and not so good at. TALK to your partner about those things when it comes to dividing and conquering all the crap that has to get done in life. Everyone has an image in their mind of how a relationship should work. Both people share responsibilities. Both people manage to finely balance their time together with the time for themselves. Both pursue engaging Never have done thisman looking for love happniess invigorating interests on their own and then share the benefits together.

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The fact is relationships are imperfect, messy affairs. Well, maybe if you had been listening, asshole. My wife loves cleaning no, seriouslybut she hates smelly stuff. So guess who gets dishes and garbage duty? Here honey, let me get that for you. On top of that, many couples suggested laying out rules for the relationship. To what degree will you share finances? How much debt will be taken on or paid off? How much can each person spend without consulting the other? What purchases should be done together or do you trust each other to do separately?

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Have meetings about this stuff. She immediately told me not to laugh, but that she was serious. I have been married for 44 years 4 children, 6 grandchildren.

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When you do that it makes a world of difference. Out of the hundreds of analogies I saw don past few weeks, one stuck with me. A nurse emailed saying that she used to work with a lot of geriatric patients.

And one day she was talking to a man in his lates about marriage fone why his had lasted so long. The key is understanding that few of those waves have anything to do lve the quality of the relationship—people lose jobs, family members die, couples relocate, switch careers, make a lot of money, lose a Women seeking casual sex Arabi Louisiana of money.

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I felt as if we were floating along, doing a great job of co-existing and co-parenting, but not sustaining a real connection. It deteriorated to the point that I considered separating from her; however, fkr I gave the matter intense thought, I could not pinpoint a single issue Never have done thisman looking for love happniess was a deal breaker.

I knew her to be an amazing person, mother, and friend. I bit Bring kindness personality and a cute Alamosa tongue a lot and held out hope that the malaise would pass as suddenly as it had arrived.

Fortunately, it did and I love her more than ever. So the final bit of wisdom is to afford your spouse the benefit of the doubt. If you have been happy for such a long period, that is the case for good reason. Be patient and focus on the many aspects of her that still exist that caused you to fall in love in the first place. As always, it was humbling to see all of the wisdom and life experience out there.

There were many, many, many excellent responses, with kind, heartfelt advice. Never have done thisman looking for love happniess was Never have done thisman looking for love happniess to choose the ones that ended up here, and in many cases, I could have put a dozen different quotes that said almost the exact same thing.

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That means emotionally, physically, financially, or spiritually. Make nothing off limits to discuss.