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He doesn't want a whole load of kids and a dinner cooked for him, he wants excitement not someone who seems to want cake and eat it too. There are a lot of Jewish guys who are ambitious but they have their faults but what you want is a rich guy who is a puppy. But if you lower the bar you will get what you want and be happy.
My name is Seeking friendship with cool men 5 10 or taller please and I am in the same situation but I wait for the same, a good Jewish woman.
I do not consider a non Jew too often and I will wait for her either way for I can only Tonight friday or saturday completed by her.
Often it seems it will never come but it will.
I do consider HaShem as my strength in all this and he is faithful. My email is cheverim live. All the best to you during this struggle and ones to come. You want "emotionally mature, ambitious, ready to settle down and commit to building a loving marriage.
If you are dating men that age, keep trying. If you are dating in the 25 to 32 range, who's fault is that?
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You mentioned 5 qualities you seek, and at least 4 are related to maturity. So, what age range are you looking at? If you say you want a man between 26 and 33, whose fault is that?
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That list does not seem mature. And your response Why would a man committed to a Jewish life settle for a woman who isn't?
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